If you’re confused about any of the terminology we use in our posts, you can look it up in our Gay Dictionary.
Bettie: An attractive person. (See also: Clueless)
DUFF: Designated Ugly Fat Friend. (See also: the surprisingly good 2015 movie)
Hunty: Mixture of honey and cunt, after made great by the drag queens it was killed by white gays.
Mo: A homosexual.
Mother/Mom: A high honour given to those we are fans are, as they give us life.
QWEEN: Typically used in conjunction with Beyonce. Nickname given to divas.
Beat: When your make-up is on point. I’m going to beat her face, is a good thing.
Busted: Having a poor, unkempt appearance.
Clock: The act of checking something out.
Drag: Shredding a persons life and soul within an inch of their lives verbally.
Fleek: An over-used word to describe something good.
For the Gods: Doing something with all of your might.
Gag: An intese reaction to something.
House Down: Used instead of an exclamation point.
Kiki: Having a party with friends.
Reading: The act of verbally assaulting a person.
Shade: The art of insulting someone without them realising you’re doing so.
Sick’ning: For a situation to be beyond amazing
Tea: The gossip.
Werk: To give an outstanding presentation.
Yaaaaas: A term of endearment not to be confused with ‘yes’, this is a noise of excitement.
Searching For A Partner
BB: Bareback, if somebody offers this before saying hello, refuse.
Bottom: The down emoji. The ‘letterbox’ in the bedroom.
Discreet: Closeted, probably has a wife and 2 kids.
Dom: Prefers to be in charge, dominant, probably has daddy issues.
Masc: Encompassing traits of hetero-normative masculinity. Probably a drag queen in real life.
NSA: No String Attached. Casual sex, you’ll probably lose your wallet.
Sub: Submissive, a passive member that pairs with the dom. Probably has daddy issue too.
Top: Also known as the up emoji if you use Grindr. The ‘postman’.
Vers: These can send the post, and receive the package.
Types Of Gay Men
Twink: A skinny, young gay guy, with no body hair and ready to party. “Teenage, White, Into No Kink.”
Bear: A larger, hairy gay man.
Polar Bear: A bear with white body hair.
Black bear: A bear that is also a black man.
Panda bear: An asian bear.
Koala bear: An Australian bear.
Grizzly bear: An extreme bear in stature.
Muscle bear: A bear who is formed of more muscle than fat.
Nair bear: A bear who prefers to have zero body hair.
Otter: An in shape hairy gay man.
Wolf: A slimmer bear, with a sexual aggressiveness.
Cub: A younger, sometimes smaller version of a bear.
Chub: May not have the ruggedness of a bear, but is what can be described as unhealthily large.
Chaser: One who prefers to be intimate with a certain type of gay man. (See also: Chubby chaser, Tranny Chaser)
Daddy: An older man who encounters relationship with guys substantially younger than him.
Sugar daddy: Similar to the Daddy, but provides his lover with money and gifts.